Marriage

Marriage was originated by Jehovah, the happy God, who therefore wants families to be happy (1 Timothy 1:11).

Legal
Legal marriage is vital to family happiness because it provides a secure environment in which to raise children. The Christian respects local laws conncerning the registration of marriage ( Luke 2:1, 4, 5).

Divorce
God views marriage as a permanent union between a man and a woman. God directs husbands and wives to be loyal to each other (Hebrews 13:4). God Jehovah hates divorce (Malachi 2:16). An allowance is made for the Christian to divorce and remarry if their spouse commits adultery (Matthew 19:3-6, 9).

Unity
God Jehovah created men and women to fill complementary roles in marriage (Genesis 2:18). As family head, the Christian husband takes the lead in providing materially for his family and in teaching them about God. He is self-sacrificing in his love for his wife. Christian husbands and wives love and respect each other. Since all husbands and wives are imperfect, learning to forgive is a key to happiness in marriage (Ephesians 4:31, 32; 5:22-25, 33; 1 Peter 3:7).

Separation
If the Christian couple experiences difficulties in marriage, they work at treating each other with love (1 Corinthians 13:4, 5). God’s Word does not recommend separation to resolve common problems in marriage (1 Corinthians 7:10-13).

Children
The Bible gives the best advice on how to enjoy your youth. He wants children to benefit from the wisdom and experience of the Christian parents (Colossians 3:20). God Jehovah also wants the youth to experience the joy of doing things for the Creator and his Son (Ecclesiastes 11:9–12:1; Matthew 19:13-15; 21:15, 16).

Parents
Christian parents work hard to provide food, housing, and clothing for their children (1 Timothy 5:8). But for Christian children to find happiness, the parents need to teach them to love God and to learn from him (Ephesians 6:4;Psalm 19:7, 11). The parental example in showing love for God can deeply influence the child’s heart. When based on God’s Word, parental instruction can mold the child’s thinking in a positive way (Deuteronomy 6:4-7; Proverbs 22:6).

Discipline
Children benefit when encouraged and commended. They also need correction and discipline. Such training protects them from conduct that could rob them of happiness (Proverbs 22:15). Yet, discipline should never be harsh or cruel (Colossians 3:21).